Sunday, October 2, 2011

One of my old writing;

  Boy vs Girl

Females having males as friends always been an interesting topic. I don’t think having a male friend is a problem but having too many is an issue. Not like a stereotype or judgmental way, but the fact that some females will not have a friendship with a female. The way I see it is how can you not possibly understand your own gender? I think those type of females put the idea of “girls don’t understand me” or “Girls are too catty and talk too much” because first they don’t understand themselves.  The problem isn’t them it’s you. And a lot of guys are not catty but they are dogs and they can talk just like a female. Males are capable of doing what female do because we are human, but they might take about it in a different matter. Another common and famous excuse is "drama". What a lot of people don’t realize is “drama” isn’t something that walks into someone life and takes over because that is what people make it seem. Drama doesn’t choose you---you choose drama because a lot of us don’t know how to handle certain situations.  And the friends we choose are the people who have a piece of you personality. If you’re a talker, you would most likely have a friend who does as well. So if you have a friend who always in drama. Take a quick look at yourself and not all females are catty, are chatter box, and seek drama. It’s actually good to have at least one female friend because guys don’t know all the answer and have the best advice for female!





"If you find honey, eat just enough—
too much of it, and you will vomit.
Proverbs 25:16